Attractive people are intimidating
The story behind who she is and the elements you find so intimidating are what you will fall madly in love with.
That is, unless you want women to just start calling you a resting assh*le (“RA” for short).
Women won't stop at your face; we'll label all of you as that.
If there is one phrase I'm tired of men dropping, it's, “You're intimidating.”Before I jump up on my soapbox and make myself even more “intimidating,” let me write a disclaimer: This article is not intended for the woman you are too afraid to approach.
Do you feel better after getting this off your chest, as if we are in a first interview and you need to shake your nerves by being brutally honest?Newsflash: This is not an interview and even if it were, you would never tell the person interviewing you that he or she is “intimidating.”I’d rather you just tell me you're nervous because it's endearing.I'm not talking about the woman you're too scared to talk to.I'm talking about the woman that you dream of, finally find and chase down, but then are too afraid to date.I'm talking about this bizarre open conversation that happens at one of two points in a relationship: You somehow turn “you're intimidating” into an opening line.